Trauma · 18 Dec 2025 · 6 min read

Trauma and EMDR: a gentle explanation

What EMDR is, why it works, and what a session actually feels like.

Dr. Elif Şahin

Clinical Psychology Practice

Trauma and EMDR: a gentle explanation

Trauma isn't only the name for great disasters; it's any intense experience the body and mind couldn't cope with. EMDR is an evidence-based method developed to soften the imprint of such experiences.

When a traumatic moment happens, the brain can't file the experience "cleanly" like a normal memory. Images, sounds and bodily sensations are stored raw, as if it were still happening. That's why a smell, a sound or a sentence can hurl a person back into that moment even years later.

How does EMDR work?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) involves recalling a difficult memory in a controlled way, accompanied by therapist-guided bilateral stimulation (eye movement, sound or touch). This reactivates the brain's natural processing mechanism; the memory remains, but no longer carries the same weight.

What is a session like? First comes safety and preparation — nothing is rushed. Then the target memory, its linked emotions and bodily sensations are identified. During processing, people often feel they are "watching from a distance"; the memory isn't relived, it's reorganised.

Who is it for?

EMDR is used for single-event traumas as well as anxiety, panic, grief and self-worth difficulties. It isn't a single prescription for everyone; in the first session we assess together whether it's right for you.

Working with trauma takes courage, but it isn't something you should do alone. With the right support, a past moment can lose its power over you.

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